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Saturday 26 August 2017

Sometimes, it is Not Love...

Assalamualaikum.

While my friends at other institutions are having their Raya break, I'm still at UniSZA, counting days till my holiday begins. Well, we don't really have holidays in this course. Even weekends are full with activities.

It's challenging. Yes, it is. But, we're okay.

So, about that topic up there.

Sometimes, it is not love.

University life is a life where you can find love in it. Three months here, a few of my friends are now involved in love conflicts. They said that their relationship is nothing more than just a friendship. Nah, we're not too blind to see the real colour of the relationship.

Here's the story.

At first, yes, I admit. It seems like a normal friendship. But, as time goes on, when they started to go out together, chatting on Whatsapp every moment (except during classes)... And people starts to know about them... People start to talk about them, tease them...

I just realized something. Sometimes, it is not love that makes their relationship turns from being a friend to a lover.

You know, when people teases you, when people tell you that they like seeing you with him, when people tell you that you suits him well... You will have that kind of spark in your heart. The excitement, the proud feelings, that makes you feel like you should hold on to him.

We doesn't realize that what we did (all of the teases and praises) are the causes of their relationship state changes. What we did actually makes things easier for Satan to drag humans away from Allah.

Sometimes, it's not love. It's your feelings that has been swayed by Satan, just to make sure that you're getting far from Allah. 

Just a simple and gentle reminder for me, and you in the future. If your friends are having a relationship, please don't provoke them. Please don't praise them, please don't tell them that he is good enough for her.

You don't need to tell them that you like seeing them together but you don't need to tell them that you don't like seeing them together either. Just be quiet. Don't bother about their relationship so that they can think wisely what's good and what's bad for them without influences from the outside.

Hope that they're matured enough and emotionally stable enough to think wisely. That's all.

Thank you for reading.

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